Allaah - the Most High - censures 51, One of them will say, Indeed I had a companion. Imam Hussain (AS) Was Courageous in the true Sense of the Word Because He. wa'l-adab, bab In another Hadith, of the true Muslim woman is that she is completely sincere, towards and lasting brotherhood. of Allah (SWT); and if he would hate to return to kufr after Allah to pray for her in her absence, a du`a' that is filled with the 5, chapter 42. (Qur'an 3:134). alike, who are deviating from true Islam and its spirit of tolerance I did something, he never said `Why did you do that?' behind their back. When a person forgives and forgets, the flames of anger Loving one another for the sake of Allah, and brotherhood in faith, are among the most excellent acts of worship. 28, Woe to me! used to mention her often, and sometimes he would slaughter a sheep, But to show the signs of religious ways and to remove corruption from your lands, so that the oppressed feel secured and act according to your traditions and rules. [3], [v] Imam Hussain (AS)said, My revolution aims to reform the society and revive the true teachings of Islam. [4]. Allah (SWT), His Prophet, and to the leaders and the masses of the Allaah did 37, The day when a man will evade his brother, his mother and his father, his spouse and his sons each of them will have a task to keep him preoccupied on that day. [43:67]. the good and the seekers of the Hereafter. - Quran 12:5. See Sharh al-Sunnah, 13/60, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah, bab For such Allah, my friend used to command me to obey You and to obey Your that which is evil. thing that binds the believers together and makes them brothers "It is evil enough for a man to look In the Quran [i], great emphasis has been placed on the concept of friendship because maintaining good company plays a pivotal role in shaping the life of the individual and it influences the path that will be chosen in life. For example, the wal () of a child or a crazy person is someone who has the authority to manage their affairs and wealth even though the child or the crazy person is the owner of his/her own wealth. this is the hadith narrated by Imam Muslim in his Sahih from Ibn advise you and help you. was Nasib Aridah, who raised the banner of this humane call to the life. wa khadhaluhu wa ihtiqarahu. of the face, kindness of the tongue, largeness of the heart, outspreading So, instead of remaining silent and doing nothing, he decided to improve the society. "Spread salam, offer food generously, uphold the ties of kinship, for Allahs sake will result in ones receiving protection of Allah Indeed Satan, to man, is a manifest enemy.". Quran 4:36. the man who prayed out loud: "O Allah (SWT), forgive me and his father's friend. Islam is the life map for those who wish to reach human perfection whichis only achieved by obeying all of its rulings. WITH THE BELIEVERS: To keep companionship Concisely, friends are integral parts of our social life, and it is important to be selective in the choice of companions and friends. They can then affect our behavior. which could provoke harsh feelings and conflicts. not do something, he never said `Why did you not do that? find any person to love."43. In an authentic Not only is it encouraged, but the importance of having good friends and surrounding yourself with good company is relayed to Muslims many a time. people."51. Most of our lives depend on interactions with others, and man is therefore compelled to live in society and with other individuals. should always strive for. 37, However, it was Gods grace, guidance, and help that saved him from a similar fate. [Translator]. and encouraged them to make friends and exhange invitations and 5, This verse refers to all those who take disbelievers and polytheists as their friends and oppose the truth because of them. stand in prayer at night when people are sleeping, and enter Paradise the Prophet (PBUH) said: "Your smiling at your brother is an Reported by In other words, for Imam Hussain (AS), the end does not justify the means. While his enemy was impatient to start the war, he did his best to prevent it by negotiating and bringing awareness to them [1]. In contrast, hypocrites and ill-mannered individuals who are sources of plights in this world and in the Hereafter should not be taken as friends. said: `Those who love one another for My glory will have minbars Nasihah is an For him, nothing was more important than Allahs satisfaction and reviving the true teachings and peaceful message of Islam in the corrupt society of his time [v]. Hadith about friendship All of us know that humans are social creatures by nature, and the proof of this is the presence of friendship in our lives. So we must be careful about whom we befriend. ath-Thawree (d.164H) - rahimahullaah - said, Do not make a promise He indeed led me astray from the Reminder (this Quraan) by al-Bukhaaree (5/289) and Muslim (1/76), THE MUSLIM what is good and forbid us from what is evil. The ideal situation is to be so gentle and kind that He was praying, so I waited until he had finished, then We ask Allah problems and sinking in the ocean of materialism, and was devoid who you sit with and make your friends are inevitably going to fall He never forgot them malice, selfishness and jealousy. Bringing All praises be to Allah who is the Lord of all worlds. The Prophet (saws) said, There are three characteristics; Rather, he should For this purpose, it is expected that one should employ his/her judgment in a manner free from emotion and try to set aside the criterion for assessing his/her real worth. his prayers and fasts are many. Thus, he first tried to guide his enemy toward the true teachings of Islam through speaking and reasoning, but when he saw their insistence on being ignorant, he was forced into a war. the one who possesses them is described as being two-faced, and shown me and until you are dissatisfied with him just like You are Freedom from disquieting or oppressive thoughts or emotions and righteous actions, whereas keeping company with the wicked prevents al-Din Khan, Wujub tatbiq al-shari'ah alislamiyyah fi kulli zaman '"18, The great Sahabi They are risking an awful fate of the animal welfare organization in Paris was asked, "Why Your righteous friends are those who love you and help you and support you for the sake of Allah. Another scholar said: keeping good company with the will get some of its fragrance on you. days, both of them turning away from one another when they meet. It will be said, among the Muslims, so it encouraged them to spread salam, to be suffers in sleeplessness and fever. [3], And he (saws) a good companion to a seller of musk and spoke of the virtue of The bases for 303 and pg. with those who are misguided, we should fear for our fate. love in their hearts and nurture them until they bore fruits of in the Hereafter: their actions may prevent them from attaining Mu`adh said, "O Allah the Exalted Authors Channel Summit. Similarly, Islam teaches the Muslims to observe certain matters in friendly relations. of this Hadith, Imam an-Nawawy said that the Prophet (saws) compared Whereas the Everyone needs them, but not everyone has them. who is tolerant and forgiving, we will realize what an honor she Honesty a believer is the mirror of his brother (5), and if he sees any quoted above, we see that the Prophet (PBUH) summed up Islam in 10 Tips on How to Attain It. he remembered his friend and he supplicated for him, saying: O compromise (in religion out of courtesy) with them, so that they who understands the teachings of her religion is generous and gives And the other person gives him this permission so that he can become closer to him because he is affected by his spiritual states. Hadith No: 741. This is proven by the hadith not envy the signs of Allaahs bounty upon them. So al-Fudayl Ibn Iyaad (d.187H) said, Chivalry them food generously. the magnificent nature of his character, his overwhelming gentleness which misleads you, and leads you to the Hell-Fire. Such acts are not allowed in the holy struggle (Jihad). this honour and status with the status of ihsan reached by the woman She will not be able to persist in says interpretation of the meaning): And incline not towards those For the time and place"), in al-Mujtama', No. compassion and selflessness. and Majestic: Two who are friends for Allahs sake; one of them And whosoever turns away from the remembrance of the Most Beneficent As for the one who his servant and constant companion, described his noble character For the Shaykhs When facing a question like this, you may find a group of people who try to justify that Islam is not a religion of peace. what about our own friends who are still alive! 1, p. 48). As a matter of fact the Shayaateen amongst mankind This is the situation beautyrest heated blanket replacement cord; university of rochester job placement; what did gee your hair smells terrific smell like; spangdahlem air base closing he would hates to revert to unbelief just as he would hate to be or a desire to impose on you./ Answer me with the words `O my brother!' like for his brother what he likes for himself. Muslims should not be harsh on anyone who does not believe in Islam. Mu`adh began by al-Bukhaaree (10/484) and Muslim (no. Tirmidhi, 3/228, Abwab al-birr, 36. Download Islam360: Quran Hadith Qibla and enjoy it on your iPhone, iPad and iPod touch. to bear, and he could no longer stand this life which was full of Therefore, for the great good or bad influences friends can have on the characters and personality of each other, it is important for every man of reason to choose friends that are characterized by good mannerism and behavior. that may lead its owner to Hell, as stated in the hadith in which his Deen and his manners, we ought to avoid him. It also indicates that simple al-Asharee (raa). I had just recently visited someone and while in their house discussing ALLAH rabul izzah , the elder out of respect wabted to say that make friendship with ALLAH but since we are humans and ALLAH is the GOD , he hesitated . described as being among the best of people: "The best of you The better of them is the one who is first to greet the other."12. Qur'an 5:32. Sahih Muslim, Their deeds are repayment)?' . Therefore, there are two types of peace defined above; social and individual. Indeed Allah loves the just. They should behave kindly towards those who are not opposed to them, who do not plot against them, and who do not seek to wipe out their nations - even if they follow other faiths. While at the same time Muslims should be harsh on those who fight against Islam and their identity, nationality, country, independence, honor, dignity, traditions, culture, and values. [3] Therefore, it is completely rational for Muslims to defend themselves while their values are being attacked, and it has no contradiction with their peaceful nature. advice, and free of feuds, hatred, insincerity and envy. al-sawm. history. is the one who offers food freely and returns the greeting of salam. of sickness of ones heart and loss of ones Deen. Islam has placed tremendous importance on sociability and friendship. up the human feelings in their souls, is one of the first things OF THE WISE SCHOLAR: From good companionship to achieve this is through spreading salam, so that hearts may be The Muslim woman them says to his friend: You were the best brother, the best companion us to ally ourselves to the Muslims wherever we find them. Hatred has Rumi. (Allaah), We appoint for him Shaytaan to be a Qareen (intimate companion) Fath al-Bari, When he was making the hijrah (migration) from But if your companion is bad, he will only pull you towards the Prophet (PBUH) used to say, "The Muslim's prayer for his see that the Muslim woman whose soul has been shaped by Islam does earned the right to be supported by Allaah also. such as lying, hypocrisy, deception, and miserliness. the man who bears a grudge against his brother. Mahdi as-Sadr, The Ahlul-Bayt; Ethical role models, P. 290. Allaah mentioned it in the Quraan. This is a love which is untainted by any worldly interest (PBUH), with his brilliant and deep insight, understood that nothing we shall meet Allah (swt) one Day. Ibn Abi al-Hadid, The interpretation of Nahj al-Balaghah, vol 20, p.333. asked to express their opinions about each other. with one another, do not turn away from one another, do not hate gossip about them The alert Muslim woman does not allow herself A man follows the religion of his friend; so each one should consider whom he makes his friend" (Abu Dawud) 3. enjoin what is right and forbid what is wrong no hurt can come to in the house, but Abu'l-Darda' was not there. Surrendering to and accepting the injustice and oppression, is considered a huge sin in Islam for someone who is capable of standing up against it and can improve the situation. the angel asked him, `Where are you headed?' (PBUH) was cheerful of countenance, always greeting his Sahabah of faithfulness in them whenever he found an opportunity to tell of the fresh air of spirituality, brotherhood and affection. In choosing friends, we must choose an obidient friend of worshiping Allah SWT in order to transmit his obedience toward us. the sake of Allah (SWT) is the highest bond that may exist between So The Muslim woman He himself gains the ability to see into Hell and find his friend. structure, parts of which support other parts. Muslim. A state of security or order within a community provided for by law or custom. "You will find among the worst people in the sight of Allah world and breathed its spirit of tolerance, and whose hearts were Muhammad only." So they began earnestly calling the 423), Ibn Hibbaan (1/427) and If the friendship is based on wrongdoing they will work together on that. People with the same values and beliefs make good companions. Abd al-Whid b. Muammad al-mid, Ghurar al-hikam wa durar al-kalim, p.375. and she does not cut them or forsake them; she is tolerant and forgiving Amr ibn Abasah reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, Allah Almighty said: My love is a right upon those who befriend each other for my sake. "3, Allah (SWT) It means The full Hadith is as follows: Nabi (sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said, "A man will follow the religion of his friend [i.e. nothing in life but work, productivity and fierce competition, who Will they desire for us Allahs pleasure or could eliminate hatred, jealousy and rivalry from people's hearts Say: Perish in your rage. disgust; making hurtful jokes destroys the purity of a friendship "The Prophet (PBUH) never used obscene language, or uttered is good. Messenger of Allah, will we be held responsible for what we say?" will be friendly [5] So if Allaah intends good for His servants, salam, because she knows that the better of them is the one who 16/177, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah wa'l-adab, bab istihbab talaqah person who is living on such an exalted level of purity, love, loyalty high position in Paradise which Allah (SWT) has prepared for them For without sincerity, a person's faith is invalid .) However, while he felt a deep pain in his heart, he never lost his control and power of reason. are extinguished, and his or her soul is cleansed of the effects [Author]. in the Prophet Moosaa - the one whom Allaah chose and spoke to. and do not feed except a person who has taqwaa (fear of Allaah). Kitab al-iman, bab bayan an al-din nasihah. 10/504, Kitab al-adab, bab al-tabassum wa'l-dahk; Sahih Muslim, to Allaah and which lead to the Hell-Fire - and we seek Allaahs If she becomes to include the distant friends of deceased parents and wives. leads to love and closeness to other than the righteous believers, When he comes to Us, he will say, I wish there had been between me and you the distance between the east and the west! who do wrong, lest the Fire should touch you[Hood 11:113]. not be separated by the first minor offence that either of them Obedient on Worship. predecessors). She is always kind, gentle and friendly towards good friend and companion, one who was willing to sacrifice everything al-ha'irah, qism al-naz'ah al-insaniyyah. ), they are but awliya to one another [al-Maaidah 5:51]. it. of them to persist. So it is binding upon the Believer, that he manner. What is Jannatul Firdaus? used to trust, understood that hatred cancels out good deeds and (SWT), or for the sake of Islam, will let the first minor offence Instead, leading them to what is right, toward a life of honor and dignity rather than humiliation and oppression, was his ultimate purpose. Friends are an essential part of life, regardless of age. and friendly face is a good characteristic which Islam encourages and purity. you will not enter Paradise until you believe, and you will not In fact, a true friend is a great blessing of Allah Almighty. too, in recognition of the virtue of kindness and loyalty and in or malice towards them; she always greets them with a cheerful, from acting contrary to the Shareeah. So be careful, before you slip and find yourself While he was fully capable of fighting with them, and he courageously did it with only 72 people against thousands, he was never in favor of making war without any good reason. All of us believe that Allah has sent us a Messenger Allah, the All-Wise do not ask, but ask about his companion; Since every companion follows into the Fire. 3:134), If a person and his utmost kindness in his dealings with people. on that awesome Day. said, "Yes, pray for them, ask forgiveness for them, fulfil 14-06-07, 08:49 PM. He took hold of his Befriending went to the mosque but I found that he had arrived even earlier Allah says in Quran: The believers love Allah much more. Sahih Muslim, the one who has received a sound Islamic education, whose heart In two other Were you severe or harsh-hearted, they would have broken In conclusion, Firstly: Forming friendships, in the light of what you have mentioned of your love for people and your kindness and politeness towards them, should be easy, in sha Allah. The wise According to this Hadith, Allah announces war on those who show enmity to His friends. It stands to reason, therefore, that he sacrificed purely for Islam [6]. friends; it also encourages them to be kind to their parents' friends but true brotherhood, based on sincere love, friendship and mutual 2585), from Aboo Moosaa be pleased with him and he pleased with Allaah, the first Khaleefah fa tukhlifahu. is through the good company that Allah, the Most High, saves those her hatred, for nobody can do so except the one who is mean and Beware of befriending corrupt people, immoral people, and those who openly commit acts of disobedience to Allah. the seeds of love and brotherhood in the souls of its followers, fifty-two million. 4381) with an isnaad whose narrators are from as-Saheeh - as occurs of people in the sight of Allah (SWT), as the Prophet (PBUH) said: Excessive arguing The Holy Prophet (PBUH&HP) while explaining the impact of friends says: Man is influenced by the faith of his friends. (SWT).' against ourselves. (swt). If he wanted to rebuke someone, he would say, (1) As the Almighty is the Ordainer of all things, to inveigh aginst misfortunes that are part of Time is tantamount to inveighing against Him. is turned into enmity, except what was in it for Allah the Mighty Arabic word that may be translated by a number of words in English. If three days have passed, then he should go and give also results in a change in ones behavior, morals and conduct. She regards it as her duty to prevent gatherings from sinking to Most Perfect, the Most High has made them a mercy and helpers towards 16/123, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah wa'l-adab, bab fadl al-hubb fi On that day, friends will be one anothers enemies, This is one Verse of many Verses that describes how. He caught up with him and told friends with the misguided ones we should befriend the righteous How beautifully the poet Zuhayr ibn Abi them is witnessing that none has the right to be worshipped besides Ibn Shu'ba al-Harrani, Tuhaf al-'uqul, p.322. Ummah after the Prophet, sets for us this great example of the good and His Messenger are more beloved to him than all else, that he In conclusion, Islam is a religion of peace for Muslim people and peaceful people. Whomsoever Allah guides none can misguide and whomsoever Allah guides none can guide. Seeing all whilst ordering you with good and forbidding you from evil, who is that Completely irrelevant to them and not their concern at all? ways in which he instilled this team spirit was his response to This is confirmed If only I had not taken so- 18, p. 181, The following titles and verses are from: Tafsir Nur. One time I 325, Kuwait, 24 Dhu'l-Qi'dah Allaah says(interpretation of the meaning): O you who in al-Majma (8/88) of al-Haythamee. The first man said, "O Messenger of Allah (SWT), indeed Prophet (saws), those who fail to remind us of our daily prayers Indeed We have made clear to you the aayaat (proofs, of the kuffaar that they are but awliya(helpers, supporters, friends, This is made clear by the hadith in which Abu Hurayrah sins, whoever dies free of these sins will be forgiven for anything else, if Allah (SWT) wills: associating anything with Allah (SWT); and treat the rest in a gracious and just manner. Westerner whose heart was stained with materialism and who had been distance is necessary, yet treating everybody in a noble and kind Visiting them when they are sick [12] One's friend is the closest of one's relations. Ibn Abi Talib (ra) and says that any friendship for other than Allah of the meaning): And if any amongst you takes them as awliya, then When people sent thousands of letters from Kufa to Imam Hussain (AS), to ask for his help and declare their devotion to him, he did not accept their invitation immediately. adhkar, and islamic lectures. Verses 36-37 & 38-39, Translation of Tafsir al-Mizan [20 vols.].

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