"I had to take a break.". He would never look at you. "There's no way to know at this point what that will mean," he explains to Jewsweek. We did not exaggerate. They just treated him so unfairly.". The retired detective who led the investigation, and appears in the film, now wishes she had never cooperated with Jarecki. And, for the first time since the case surfaced, many of them are commenting on the documentary and the court motion -- one in his own voice, one through an interview with his parents and his own written statement, and four through a lawyer hired to speak on their behalf and protect their privacy. (In the DVD's commentary track, Jarecki tells us that he had scheduled an interview with the hypnotists who "recovered" victim memories in the Friedman case, but the therapists canceled at the last minute.). "Arnold and Jesse Friedman violated my trust for them as educators by sexually abusing my classmates and I at their home," he wrote. " See also Shakur, 817 F.2d at 191 (defendant on FBI's list of "Ten Most Wanted Fugitives"). He was a teenager. He feels that Mr. Friedman was well liked by all the kids in the class. As he ventured into the cross-currents of "Capturing the Friedmans," he was able, over time, to conduct multiple interviews, nearly two dozen of which appear in the film. It's a story that's happening to them every day.". "A sentence that began `I feel' was never in his vocabulary," Mrs. Friedman said. . 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But the parents refused to cooperate with the investigation, a reaction that police came to know well. She led a symposium on the science of child abuse for the American Association for the Advancement of Science's annual meeting in Seattle earlier this month. Jarecki juxtaposes this statement by Doppman's colleague, Detective Anthony Squeglia, asserting that in questioning children you must imply the answer without room for denial or evasion: "You don't give 'em an option, really." Did the system bow to public hysteria, and most of all was young Jesse railroaded into his guilty plea? In the interviews, Jesse admitted he later became the abuser, forcing children to assume sexual positions and to perform oral sex. "I was told if he went to trial, the judge would give three consecutive sentences," Elaine Friedman said. Subsequently, Arnold admitted that he was a furtive pederast of long standing. If I said it, it was not because it happened. `Tell and this will happen to you,' " he quoted the Friedmans as saying. All of us have psychological scars. But "Capturing the Friedmans," a new documentary and Sundance film festival winner that raises disturbing questions about the police and legal procedure that led to both men's convictions and imprisonment, has revived those painful events. Controversy always surrounded the Friedman case, from the sensational details at its start to the doubts about its veracity that linger today. While researching his birthday-entertainer film, Jarecki kept running across people who referred him to David Friedman, who was considered the most successful clown of them all. Nemser says the film shows prosecutors withheld "important facts" that could have exonerated the younger man. At the time, he felt he had simply "run out of options", and a guilty plea under the US plea-bargaining system seemed his only chance of ever being released. However, I fear that incredibly strong forces are at work to deny both the extent of child abuse and the significance of its human and social costs. They were also secrets that Arnold Friedman, a pudgy 58-year-old pedophile, had not only managed to hide from colleagues but, according to the woman to whom he had been married for 33 years, even concealed from her. The documentary film "Capturing the Friedmans" is based on their case. Thirty minutes after police arrived, she got home to find neighbors, reporters and camera crews gathered out front and her husband inside in handcuffs. Section 107, the material on this site is distributed without profit to those who have expressed a prior interest in receiving the included information for research and educational purposes. Mrs. Friedman pleaded guilty to attempted assault, second degree, and obstructing governmental administration. Arnold Friedman, an admitted pedophile, pleaded guilty and went to prison, where he killed himself in 1995. Arnold's brother and David hit their heads, saying maybe someday they'll remember something, but they don't, now. "Jesse was put into a corner and had to plead guilty," Nemser said. "I feel that I cannot just sit silently by and not protect the credibility of many of the victims in this case," Boklan told the crowd. But I don't know how far that would really go. By law, he has to register every 90 days as a "violent sexual predator" under Megan's Law and must do so for the remainder of his life. Reclining on a couch with his legs spread and his face hidden by shadows, the unnamed young man makes allegations that are even more bizarre and outlandish than those made in the movie. How can you interview two victims to say it didn't happen," said retired Judge Abbey Boklan, who heard the original case. "Child sexual abuse is today's unspeakable. I never molested a child. Through him, he learned the Friedmans' dark secret. Jesse started seeing a psychiatrist at the age of 10; he was diagnosed manic depressive. Goldstein, the third defendant, said he was there in the Friedmans' computer classes, said he saw the sex crimes against the children, was able to identify the victims from photographs shown to him by police and was willing to testify against the Friedmans in court. As he slouched on a plastic chair and sipped a cherry cola, Jesse said he is "halfway between loving and hating" the man he holds responsible for landing him in prison. Ah, Hollywood! A computer search revealed the stories written at the time about the highly sensational case. I drew it out again," the detective is alleged to have said. 3142(f)(1) or that the defendant presents a risk of flight or obstruction of justice. The father, Arnold, is the admitted pedophile. The academy acknowledged receiving an unsigned letter purported to have been written by two men molested as children by Arnold Friedman and his son Jesse during computer classes in the basement of their Great Neck, N.Y., home in the 1980s. She and her husband both asked that their identity be withheld to protect their son's privacy. ", The children whose parents deny what has happened and force them to suppress it often suffer the most, Kaplan said. And so, eventually, did his 19-year-old son, Jesse. In 1987, Gregory was one of the 17 boys who told Nassau law enforcement officials that they had been abused at the Friedmans' home on Piccadilly Road. The film forces you to look at Arnold as a man who is not just a monster, to realise that humans are very complicated beings, says Smerling. The critical legal issue involved is whether information on questioning techniques used by police and some children's initial denials constituted material that, by law, had to be handed over to the defense before trial. Victims recounted being held down by one attacker and raped by another. He had pled guilty to child molestation. And I'd say, 'When was that?' The film, which includes interviews with the Friedmans, various Nassau County law enforcement and justice officials, as well as former computer students, strongly suggests the children's testimony was obtained with the sort of unfairly leading interview techniques and false-memory hysteria that characterized such 1980s trials as the McMartin preschool case in California. Files were established for each child. The 40-year-old Jarecki, who was in town recently to promote the film, stressed that "Capturing the Friedmans" is supposed to be about the Friedmans, a family whose lives were forever damaged when a battering ram broke down their door on Thanksgiving eve, 1987. Jarecki's film, which opens in Milwaukee on Friday, captures the confusion and shame of a family in self-denial and the complex nature of truth when it is hidden in the shadows. Karl Bernard Friedman was born on May 23, 1924, in Birmingham, Alabama, to Max and Sid Friedman and died on April 5, 2018. If on the other hand no injustice was done, you have to defend yourselves - and other victims like you - and to explain to those unfamiliar with the sexual abuse of children why the cops were right to come back, and come back, until you were able to talk. It is common for them to live behind facades so respectable that even the parents of their victims are shocked by the disclosures of abuse. One of the criticisms levelled at Capturing the Friedmans is that Arnold Friedman is very much humanised. Jesse has said "I served 13 years in jail for crimes that never occurred. [I have deleted the surname of the state's witness because he received a youthful adjudication and has a sealed criminal record.]. Arnold and Elaine Friedman lived in the Long Island community of Great Neck with their three sons, David, Seth and Jesse. Four other victims who have retained a lawyer to fight Jesse Friedman's motion to vacate his guilty plea also criticized the film. 1987), that the defendant either has been charged with one of the crimes enumerated in Section 3142(f)(1) or that the defendant presents a risk of flight or obstruction of justice. Atlanta, Georgia Obituary Family-Placed Death Notice FRIEDMAN, Arnold R. Arnold R. Friedman, 90, passed away on November 10th, 2012. The film, directed by Andrew Jarecki, is one of the favorites in the documentary race, along with "The Fog of War," a portrait of former Secretary of Defense Robert McNamara. My mother joins us in hoping that these difficult times will soon be behind you. Arnold Friedman, film editor and author, of New York, NY and Callicoon, NY, died September 27, 2016 from complications due to a long battle with throat cancer. William H. Friedman, Ph.D, 1933-2021, of Chapel Hill, passed away on August 14, 2021, due to complications from dementia. Jarecki fails to mention that the Friedmans pled guilty so none was sought. Using an undercover name and address, a postal inspector wrote to Arnold Friedman and asked if he had "boy lover" material to sell. Jesse, 18 at the time of the arrests, was his father's classroom assistant. The film splices the family's home movies with extensive interview material from all players in the criminal case against Arnold and Jesse Friedman - remaining family members, the judge, the retired sergeant who led the investigation, and a number of alleged victims, some who deny it ever happened, others who describe the abuse in graphic detail. His court-appointed lawyer, James Schoren, describes him as a "meek, mild very pathetic person," who had psychological problems dating to his own abuse as a child. The end result is that a firm conviction is a dangerous thing. At those trials, alleged child victims were repeatedly interviewed until they gave increasingly lurid accounts of sodomy, other abuse and even satanic rituals. The director twisted the facts in the film to make it appear that way.". Was no evidence found in the house beyond one stack of porn? The end goal is to have my conviction overturned and vacated. For one thing, on-camera comments from police are often inconsistent with the evidence presented at trial. Though it does imply an injustice has been done - that father Arnold Friedman, who died in prison in 1995, had previous sexual contact with minors but not his students, and that Jesse was probably innocent - it carefully balances opposing views. A later search by police, documented on November 20, showed no additional material.]. See United States v. Salerno, 481 U.S. 739, 107 S. Ct. 2095, 2102, 95 L. Ed. "There has never been any dispute about the fact that these statements were made," he said. No physical evidence was sought, Galasso said, because the procedures would have been too invasive and "none of the parents wanted that." In a later interview with Newsday, he said he lied about his father abusing him, and said he did not abuse any of the children. He's not self-absorbed, advocating for a second look at our justice system and the basic human sympathy to believe that at least some of our prisoners might be innocent. Computer teacher Arnold Friedman admitted yesterday that he sodomized or otherwise sexually assaulted numerous young boys who were students in his Great Neck home and pleaded guilty to 42 counts of various forms of sexual abuse. Possible Telltale Signs EXPERTS say that it is difficult but not impossible for parents to protect children from pedophiles, who often hide behind a cloak of respectability while their victims rarely talk about being attacked and sometimes exhibit no symptoms. Mr. Jarecki's first feature a remarkable documentary chronicle of family scandal, estrangement and solidarity titled "Capturing the Friedmans" has opened to an admiring press in several cities, duplicating its reception at the Sundance Film Festival in January. When the arrests occurred, the cameras kept rolling. ", Another, known as Stephen Doe, told Jarecki in an audio-taped conversation, "I don't want to be a perjurer or anything but I can't even say that anyone was hit in all honesty they were asking me a lot of questions trying to get something and I just wanted to give them something.". A spokesman for the Nassau County Police Department, Det. The film shows her being mistreated by her sons for questioning Arnold's innocence. This week, Jesse Friedman is filing a 440 motion in an effort to get his conviction overturned. He was a respected and dedicated schoolteacher, but he clearly had a tragic flaw. It was rough duty. "The pressure mounted until he had no clear choice: either plead guilty and get a limited sentence or face the prospect of a conviction at trial and an even longer prison term.". No mention is made in the film of the pre-sentencing psychiatric report in which Jesse told a psychiatrist that he was relieved when his father began molesting the children in his computer classes because it finally deflected his father's sexual attentions from him. ", [The contention that the Friedmans are confused or sometimes remember the abuse happening is false. Why was there no physical evidence? "If this film does win an Oscar, it will be won at the expense of silencing the plaintive voices of abused children once again, just as our own voices were silenced 16 years ago by the threats and intimidation of our tormentors, Arnold and Jesse Friedman," said the letter. "Dynamite.". After the film's release Friedman who has adamantly maintained his innocence for years became a new face of the wrongfully convicted. . "I don't miss my old life." Soon after, Jarecki had the first of many interviews with Jesse Friedman, in an upstate prison. "I was 18 years old. . "The Academy once used the awards platform to give legitimacy to the suffering of millions who suffered from the once unspeakable, AIDS. Arnold Friedman writes for various national and California publications and news sites. "I think people were more open than I expected," he said. Did I ever try to abate my father's guilt? In the movie Jarecki cuts to still photos of the living room showing no such thing. And in October, 1987, less than a month before authorities seized stacks of kiddie-porn from his house, Arnold Friedman was cited by the state Association for Computers and Technologies in Education for innovation and excellence in computer education. http://www.newsday.com/news/printedition/ny-livit273389114jul27,0,4000086.column?coll=ny-news-print, http://entertainment.msn.com/news/article.aspx?news=145568. Sometimes they remember that "it" happened, sometimes not. "Thinking doesn't make it so. Perhaps the Friedmans captured us. "My father," he says, "didn't really give two fucks about my life." These, along with new evidence, beam a dramatic spotlight at the. That was so self-indulgent of him. Comments have to be in English, and in full sentences. "We felt strongly for everyone's purposes that the film should be as objective as possible," Jarecki said, as the men sat for a recent interview. But Abbey Boklan, the Suffolk County judge who sent Arnold Friedman and his son Jesse to prison in the late 1980s, is among those who say the film is a simplified account of a complex case. "That's a big incentive to keep your mouth shut.". Mr Friedman's legal team have filed papers at Nassau county court seeking a new trial following evidence discovered in Capturing the Friedmans, which won the documentary grand prize at the 2003 Sundance festival and was named best non-fiction film by the New York Film Critics Circle. The owner of the school and her son, who worked there, were accused of having orgies with children in churches, airplanes and secret passageways under the school. Could you do it?" "Jesse was the scariest of all of them to my son," one Long Island mother of a then-7-year-old boy told Newsday. To me the most interesting thing is when they stop looking at me and start looking at each other and talking directly to each other.". A convicted child molester went to jail and his story to the silver screen. Judd was not charged by the police. They'll get no help from me. Despite the attorney's plea for leniency, Boklan again recommended that the defendant serve the full sentence. We had a good family, right? While interviewing potential subjects in 2000 for his then-planned clown film, Jarecki came across David Friedman, whom he describes as "the No. After vehemently defending himself, and being threatened with a 50 year jail term if found guilty, Goldstein ultimately accepted a deal to testify against Jesse in return for a 6 month term in county jail and no criminal record. Fortune continues to smile on his endeavors in a sobering kind of way. Gary said that A.G. was also visited by the police who tried to get him to say that all these things happened to him by telling him that they know that it happened to the others. . See end of text for sidebar-Possible Telltale Signs. Galasso and her 11-member squad of Nassau detectives and officers were hard at work checking out names. It is difficult to believe that such degrading episodes could have happened without a single child out of more than 100 students telling anyone about it until after Detective Squeglia's interrogations. We do make our claim that the charges are not true, but the legal basis for the motion is not strictly that Jesse's innocent." Let me acknowledge them and go to jail, but spare my son. Dreamy sequences of al fresco Great Neck are interwoven with the case's various talking heads - who include detectives, journalist Debbie Nathan, prosecutors, defense laywers and other alleged victims - the resulting tone being one of verite unreality. Arnold was 57 years old at the time of death. On Jan. 24, 1989, Jesse Friedman was sentenced to six to 18 years in prison. The most horrid abuse took place during one-on-one makeup sessions when he was left alone with Arnold Friedman. The investigation led to hundreds of charges of child molestation against father and son. - A number of computer students admit to having provided false testimony in order to end the questioning and that they actually did not experience the abuse to which they had testified to. Jarecki pointed specifically to a comment by detective Galasso in the movie, recalling "foot-high stacks" of pornographic material found in the Friedmans' living room. How does one make a film raising questions about the guilt of two defendants in a criminal case - and just leave out mention of the existence of a third? "Who do you believe?" Now, he's free and hoping to clear his name. Nemser said filmmaker Andrew Jarecki gathered evidence that Jesse Friedman could not, because he didn't have the resources after his arrest. It was because someone else put those words in my mouth, he said. Several hours of supplemental footage on a DVD version released in January, though, paint a more damning picture of the investigation.An interview with an alleged victim casts his testimony into strong doubt, and interviews with detectives underscore the extent to which they coaxed and bullied testimony from Friedman's 8- to 11-year-old students. Friedman was 18 when he pleaded guilty to molesting more than a dozen boys in the 1980s at computer classes taught by his father in the basement of their home in suburban Great Neck. Whatever. Not because his family was in jeopardy, but because they took his pictures. Staff writer Robin Topping contributed to this story. "I never sexually assaulted any child ever," he said. "I regret the effect on the victims," Frances Galasso said. He was a workaholic who talked little and demonstrated no affection for either her or their three sons, Mrs. Friedman said. Some of the Friedmans' alleged victims and family members wrote to the Awards Committee, protesting the nomination. But that sense of the least expected hasn't left Jesse. Galasso said "an enormous amount of child pornography" was found in the Friedman home. I asked him if there was any reason for not continuing after 6th Grade and he said no, he did not think there were any classes after he left the 6th Grade. "Because Arnold told me. The film and the court challenge have brought pain and outrage to the young men in their 20s trying to rebuild their lives. The younger kids, now three and four, also show emotional scars. But for the most part growing up, it was dormant. One investigator claims when interviewing the children, "You don't really give them an option." New York State Department of Correctional Services - Arnold Friedman, United States of America, Appellee, v. Arnold Friedman, Defendant-Appellant, Boys' Sex Abuse Admitted - Great Neck teen to get 6-18 years in plea bargain, A letter written by an eight-year-old boy, Dragnet Is Out For Porn Photos In Child Sex Case, Questions for Jesse Friedman - The Home Horror Movie. We saw boys older than you - freshmen on the Mepham High School football team, for instance - who denied and denied, and probably would still be denying today if one of them had not been betrayed by the blood from his own injuries. Then his nose began to bleed. There is an option available on the DVD whereby you can hear Jarecki explain how he made his editing decisions as you watch the documentary. The father died in prison in 1995. Why would they re-enroll for a program, if these things were going on?". Imagine a man who pled guilty to serial child molestation.
